That Dream Where You Cheated? It's Not What You Think

And How to Stop Blocking the Medicine with Shame

You know that viral meme where someone says "you cheated on me in my dream" and then gets mad at their partner in real life? Yeah, we need to talk about that.

If you're bringing your waking-world moral judgments into your dream life, you're completely missing the point—and blocking some serious healing in the process.

Here's the thing most people don't understand: accessing wisdom from the Dreamweave requires you to operate from what I call the perceptive mind, not your everyday analytical brain. And your analytical brain—with all its shame, guilt, and social conditioning—might be exactly what's preventing you from receiving the medicine your dreams are trying to deliver.

Opening the door to new possibilities...

The Dreamweave doesn't give a damn about societal norms. It only cares about restoring you to your original blueprint, your optimal way of being in the world so you can actually share your gifts. But if you're busy judging every dream scenario against your waking-world moral code, you're shutting down the very flow that's meant to heal you.

Let's get specific about that sexual encounter you had in your dream last night.

You know, the one that has you feeling guilty and confused because it wasn't with your partner. Maybe you've been wanting more creativity in your business, feeling stuck or uninspired. Then you had this dream. What if you just received a custom-delivered dose of life force energy, precisely calibrated to revive stagnant areas of your creative flow? What if the Dreamweave sent you an encounter with Eros himself, the archetypal source of vitality and original energy?

Did the dream help you feel something in a place where maybe you felt numb? That's a sign that energy is now flowing where things were stagnant, and you might be in line for a creative breakthrough at work. If you find yourself spiraling about "what this means about me as a person" and whether you're a terrible partner, you've now blocked the healing with shame. The very thing you've been asking for—more creative juice, more aliveness, more flow in your business—came packaged in a way your ego couldn't handle, so you rejected the gift.

Dreams aren't happening in linear time and space. Unless you're lucid, you're not in control of them. They're not usually showing you literal truths about your character or secret desires. They're energy experiences designed to move stuck patterns and deliver exactly what your system needs for optimal functioning.

Think of dreams as a self-regulating system designed for repair and rejuvenation. You're an intimate part of this larger wholeness, whether you believe it or not, and you receive these benefits whether you acknowledge them, like them, want them, or think you deserve them. The field is always available. It's always your choice whether to receive or resist what's being offered.

Here’s another take on the “cheating dream”. What if that dream where you did something you'd be ashamed of in waking life came specifically to show you the shame itself. Not as a moral lesson, but as dense emotion (no story needed) that needs processing. The story was just the delivery mechanism. Your job isn't to analyze the plot, your job IS to to feel the energy, let it move through you, and allow it to transform into flow…and eventually gratitude.

Here's your practice: Don't judge. Don't analyze. Don't try to make your dreams fit into neat little boxes that your ego can stomach. Let them wash over you. Feel the energy. Stay open. Allow the meaning to reveal itself without forcing a story onto it that makes you feel better about yourself.

Dreams are about the relational whole healing itself. If you're part of that whole (spoiler alert: you are, no matter how separate you think you are), then these healing downloads are meant for you. But you have to stop blocking them with judgment to actually receive them.

The Dreamweave is offering you custom-tailored medicine every single night. The question is: are you going to keep rejecting it because it doesn't come wrapped in socially acceptable packaging, or are you finally ready to receive what you've been asking for?

It’s your choice. The field doesn't care either way—it'll keep broadcasting the goodness. But your creative projects, your stuck patterns, and your untapped vitality are all waiting on your response.

Want to understand more about how the Dreamweave actually works? Check out my previous article "Understanding the Dreamweave”

Ready to dive deeper? Join my free masterclass "Unlocking the Dreamweave" to learn how to access the hidden half of your creative genius through intentional dreamwork.