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Harmonizing to the Vibration of Unconditional Love

  • abstractalmegan
  • Jan 11
  • 2 min read

Unconditional love is the most radical and taboo thing in the universe...


Why? Because unconditional love is freely given, no matter what. You are nice to me, I love you. You hurt me...I still love you. Unconditional love goes against many of the frameworks in our society that say we have to earn love, that love will be taken away from us and we'll be thrown out of society if we really mess up. That type of love is conditional love...and it's a challenging place to operate from.



In unconditional love, we are loved and love no matter what, always and forever, just because we exist.


Jesus said "love they neighbor" and "love thy enemy"...he was talking about this state of unconditional love. Jesus belief and practice in unconditional love is why he wasn't super popular with the leaders of his time. It's hard to keep people bound and silent when they are living as if they are loved unconditionally.


Unconditional love is a topic I talk about a lot because the "mingjue" or pure consciousness state we work with in Zhineng Qigong practice is often described as unconditional love.


I believe we've really confused the concept of love in our society. I didn't realize this until I started going deeper into pure consciousness practices and experiencing true unconditional love myself. Unconditional love is unattached and outside of duality. It doesn't concern itself with judging whether someone is worthy. It just gives...and receives. When we are concerned with judging other peoples worthiness, we are also judging our own worthiness. If we don't have the capacity to give it, we also don't have the capacity to receive it. Unconditional love is something we can learn to give to everybody, it is freely given. The paradox with unconditional love is, though it is unattached, it is also fully connected in a way that is impossible to do when there are conditions.


By contrast, in conditional love one is attached to the duality of the situation. One's love for the other is conditional on them being or acting in a certain way or meeting certain expectations. It's really sticky. It's also requires a lot of energy from everyone involved. One ends up spending a lot of energy judging the other so they can decide whether they want to love them not. It leads to whipsaw situations where one feels "I love you" and then "I hate you". It is exhausting and not true connection.


In Zhineng Qigong we learn how to step into the paradigm of unconditional love. This will completely change your relationships with your family, all of your friends, and even with the people you hate!


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